that general kelly mischaracterized her involvement. she's also talked about how she personally knew the family that was involved. of course the gold star family. she was there when the president called and she feels she has every right to speak up and help characterize how the family is feeling there. julie: i understand that there are people out there who don't like our president so they are going to try and twist his words. that's something that, you know, unfortunately happens every time he puts out a tweet. but insensitivity when it comes to widows who have lost their loved ones at war, there have been numerous people that have come forward and said look, the president called me, and he was extremely disheartened, he was extremely sympathetic, and extremely respectful in talking about the hero that that person and their life that is no longer with them and the tragedy so for him to say the words that he's being accused of by this representative and so far nobody has really come out and said one way or the other for fact,