so cuddling is not sexual. that's what were saying so people come to you because why. >> they are looking for touch and attention and someone to spend some time with. >> and they are cuddling. you are the cuddler, so you spin them? is that how that works. >> yes, there's all different kinds of options. as long as we are following the code of conduct and keep it non- sexual then pretty much everything is up for negotiati negotiation. >> so spooning or touching or stroking, are those the things that would make people feel better. >> those are some of them, but every session is unique. the possibilities are infinite - wow. okay so everything is up for negotiation. people aren't turned on at all during the session.