sglnks on saturday, october 22nd, 2005, tara grim stead had a busy day. she had planned to help forget the turmoil she was feeling about her ex-boyfriend marcus. she spent the day at hope coaching young contestants in the sweet potato pageant. in the evening, she went to a barbecue at this house, just a few blocks from her home. >> about 11:00 that night, tara told the people at the cookout that she was tired after working with the girls all that afternoon, and going to the pageant. she said she was going to go home and watch a video of the packagest. pageant. >> the next day, sunday, she had plans to meet up with her mother, fay, and best friend maria woods. >> she was supposed to come to her mother's the next sundaymor. and tara didn't. so her mother and i were extremely worried. and scared. and i think were hoping for the