so i think we have to remember that we really have made a generation of overhelping and being in touch with the -- there's a lot of kids whose parents work. they can't have someone drop it off. they have to be held accountable to a different set of standards. i think it is important. i wouldn't put a legislation or a mandate, but i would suggest that really you know if your child in middle school forgets his cleats for a practice, then he needs to go without them and that does help him remember. i mean, the stakes are not so high in middle school or high school. >> darby and melissa, thank you for joining us. >> i love to hear from your viewers. go to our facebook page. weigh in on this topic. coming up, talk about a bad wrap. a high school teacher appearing in a video with drugs and booze. the students are standing by him. the details straight ahead. the remarkable image going