you're not playing the game. >> i do think the vast majority of parents involve themselves in youth sports are doing it for the right reason, there is a segment, a, basically trying to relive their own youth through their kids or that sport or so competitive they will go to the point of driving young people basically win at all costs. i will tell you, i was watching myself-year-old's flag football game this weekend. you hit it on the head. team came off losing dejected, the kids, seven, eight, trash-talking. using curse words. doing things you accept that in sports, but really at seven? the thing that kills me the most about this, we talked about weeks ago a rutger's football player basically kicked off the team because photographed in halloween costume that offended people. that was his punishment. he was kicked off the team. violence that can hurt the player and a two-game suspension.