tasers. they are okay. >> that is going to be taken out of context. by me. i will ruin your career. what about yelling? you are a mom. >> my husband and i don't believe in spanking. we do the yelling thing. >> between you two or what? >> that's a different issue. yelling doesn't work. you just yell louder and that doesn't work and then you are screaming. and then the kid just tunes you out or they are traumatized and then you feel guilty as a parent. it doesn't work anyway. carrots and sticks. carrots are all you feed them for dinner after you beat them with sticks. >> i thought you take carrots and put them in a pillowcase and twist it and beat them with that. that's what i used to do. mike, they put a lot of focus on on yelling and spanking. are there other useful methods some -- useful methods that don't involve violence or screaming? >> that's true.