he is cheery from 3:00 p.m. on. 8:00 a.m. is not a great time to talk to him. 9:00 a.m. could get violent. i remember i was a little kid and i was like, dad, wake up. i had a light in his face. he lept out of bed for christ sakes. he picked me up by my neck because he thought i was dying and he was going to the light. >> how about you, andy? did you grow up in a happy household? >> sure, why not? >> i would have to say no. >> did your dad love you? >> i don't know. okay we have one minute left. how douda -- how do you define this? i am perfectly content. but i don't walk away going yay all the time.