we have a lot of stuff going on when we were kids. now miller and i are living large and things change. have they changed with you? >> they've changed to this extent. you now have three choices in california they take so much money. take money in one lump sum. you can take it over 30 years. or you can not take it and save yourself some tax money because in california it's going to be $41 million you have to pay out of their half whereas the guy in georgia only has to pay 19 million. you know the things about life are always true. money is utterly important in areas that matter the least and negligibly important in things that matter the most. does money matter? everyone likes to fly first class but does it matter at the end of the day? of course it doesn't.