part of the conversation i would like to keep personal. i have been through this a few times, and i don't know how people would react to see that horror. it's seared in my brain and it's a sight i will never forget the rest of my life. after we lit the 11 memorial candles, i chanted the memorial prayer in hebrew and in english, and the president asked if i would escort he and the first lady to the memorial, and i gave him a bit of a background story about each person because it was a human being that lived and was a good and decent person, and