goes on, he did seem to come here wanting to deal, wanting to move forward, does that mean the contention with the nato leader wills be put in the rearview mirror? >> it is so hard to predict. i'm a firm believer that some things are true even if donald trump believes them. i say them all of the time. i support many of these things on china. are you going to get it done in a rational way. one of the problems of all of this personl diplomacy is when you made it personal with kim jong-un in north korea. but when the is all personal, if the other guy starts cheating on you you're very reluctant to call him on it. you made it so personal that it really involves you having to back down in ways that could be very embarrassing. same with putin, there is a reason we have a process for