they thought of memorial day as picnics and barbecues, things like that. it was the death of a loved one in iraq or afghanistan, that changed memorial day for them. that's why they come out here. we spoke with a young mother, vicki bunting, she lost her husband in afghanistan. he had come home for some r&r, spent some time at home. he deployed back to afghanistan. four days back in afghanistan, his vehicle was hit by a road side bomb and he was killed. four days after she found out her husband was dead, she found out she was pregnant. coming here on memorial day is teaching their young son of the father he never knew. >> this is where we get to know daddy and i can tell him stories here. this is where he knows daddy is. it's tough. he says dada when he sees this grave. it's tough. this is the best i wan do now. this is what we do. >> reporter: section 60 has been called the saddest acre in america because some of these deaths are the most fresh. the wound is still very raw for