older in his being. it was just, you know, he had to add a couple of years just to get some whiskers. >> whiskers, man. >> have you started shaving now? >> it's far less keanu reeves i'm eliminating the patchiness of my beard as we go by. >> what is the secret to a happy show business marriage? and i don't mean in the context of it being a show business marriage, but as two people that are in show business and happened to be married. how have you made it work? >> well, one i think you have to make your relationship a priority. and that's a difficult balance when you have work and the combination of a career and family. i think part of it is, i think we spend very little time apart. that's one of the key things. and -- >> i would also say, working on the relationship when the relationship is good. you know, as marriage goes, i think most people sort of set