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Nadezhda aleksandrovna, hello, good afternoon, we are very glad to see you, but i will immediately do a comingout, as is customary now, it is very fashionable, in my entire adult life i have never turned to psychologists, psychotherapists, or for advice , nor for psychological help , whats wrong with me, everything is fine with you, uh, its strange that sometimes they think that you need to directly contact a psychologist every day, but we dont go to medical facility every day to do an enema or swallow some kind of hose or Something Else, only according to indications , so if you have any need, we must now determine the need, then you can find specialists and contact, but i will immediately i want to say that all psychologists are now, for some reason, divided into two groups one is very large, and the other is probably small, the group always says everyone has trauma, from childhood, from life, every day and every minute, everyone must go through this path , first find out what happened to you in infancy, then in preschool childhood, then again, remember everything only after that, suddenly your life will get better, yeah, well, of course , you will walk around with injuries for a long time, because what is an injury, we have some kind of injuries every day, but i have a different concept, i like what i called for myself personal innovative psychology , the person himself, here you are for yourself, this is a certain product that you create. With your own hands, neither modern life nor the past rules over you, neither circumstances, you are responsible for yourself, and that you are yourself if you do, then you will represent yourself, this is your responsibility, and we must discover in ourselves what innovation, scarce qualities are, as a rule, this is discovered when we cannot solve some life problem, it doesnt work out for anyone for. Someone gets a divorce, someone has an apartment, someone has a job, well, the most scarce quality or characteristic of a person is intelligence, well, practically intelligence, well , its difficult to admit this, and there are surplus qualities when we seem so smart, so successful, in fact, we live repeating old skills, then there comes a moment when the old skills dont work, and. For me the function of a psychologist who works in practice, and i choose people who are smart, beautiful, happy, satisfied with life, but who want to learn something about yourself to improve your life, with these people a process of selfknowledge is organized, you think its nice, a person meets himself, its easier to say, a difficult childhood, wooden toys or oh, i. They breastfed me or oh, i have something in this country then they didnt add it, but then in other countries, they somehow live there, no, you turn to yourself, find in yourself what you havent learned, havent completed, but these are points, but how to accept yourself, what does it mean to admit, to admit to yourself , that i havent worked on something somewhere, its difficult, but just dont say accept it, you have to say how to perceive new information about yourself, adequately, you have to say yes. This is where i havent worked, this is where i will improve myself , and then we take our lives into our own hands and train, this point of view is confirmed by brain research, because we have some areas of the brain are very well developed, while others are, well, in a halfasleep state, these are the areas of the brain that in a halfasleep state we must develop for the rest of our lives, because Human Potential is enormous, exactly. If you feel that you want to improve, create, create, love, please, nadezhda aleksandrovna, well, we have a Small Library here, these are the books of our guests who were in past seasons, please dont be silent, maybe you can recommend some a book from the popular psychology series to our tv viewers could have wasted time, i can recommend my book, advise, the development of will in preschool children, but after reading it, every adult will understand what he needs to do with his own will and how to develop it, well, you said that you only work with successful and beautiful and rich, with losers, when a person wants to find strength, opportunities and will do his homework. Train, then colossal changes occur in 3 weeks, this does not mean that the changes are final, but a person acquires an inner core, as a rule, he still lacks strongwilled qualities, in overcoming himself, in creating himself, in general in consciously building himself, when a person does not depend on his weaknesses, well, here of course it is possible, but some people do not turn to psychologists. And well, they try to somehow overcome their problems on their own, so to speak, that is, they do not turn to professionals. And whats the problem, our brain is a selfregulating system, just like the psyche, the brain has special blocks that are responsible for forecasting the future, why dont we sometimes its disturbing that everything is fine, something is disturbing, our brain gives us a signal, it has a predictive function, its Something Like a leaf on a tree. Begin to fall when it is still warm, but they are already preparing for winter, so a person has a foresight, a presentiment, here we need to turn to ourselves again to find out where we are. In general, all people can be divided into four categories, according to the degree of their adaptation to life, so when we communicate, it is immediately clear what the result will be, the first option is when a person is adapted to his life and even we see something can be improved, or it would be better for a person, but he is adapted , thats it, its useless, dont touch, dont break his adaptation, the second option is when a person knows that there is a problem, and he is not very comfortable, but he doesnt do anything will do because he will have to change the system of his life, uhhuh, suddenly i find out something about myself, i need to make a decision, so many dont want to find out anything, how i will rebuild, what will happen to me, the third, very common option , periodically. From monday, lose weight by summer, here got inspired, yes, they turn, or even begin to do something themselves, but then the pendulum swings in the other direction, the enthusiasm fades, well, you can live like this, this pendulum, it is very widespread, and there is a small group of people who are ready for anything in order to change, when you had the word i accept, then here we have the following choice either i, i call it that, im proud of my inuresis, thats all, or the person will say, no, i cant be proud of it, i i will look for the best in myself, i will improve myself, and not because im improving my consumption or i wasnt given enough, but i want to create more, because in the end we dont live for ourselves anyway, the key thing is the desire of the person himself to do something, change something, and something. Then change, that is, if a person does not experience the internal need and desire for strength, again in order to change something, no one else can do anything for him, about forces, when a person is determined, when a person understands the inevitability of change, he finds these forces, and there are people in very difficult life situations, for example, a child gets sick, the parents take strength, means and incredible feats are accomplished, because there is a goal that needs to be reached, and even without a guarantee, heroic people, nadezhda aleksandrovna, well, heres the twentieth year, which brought us all out out of the comfort zone, and we can say that everyone ended up in the second category, well, not everyone, lets not generalize, i remember the twenties very well in general, this period, already. I remember it was on sunday, i think the ninth on the morning of the tenth i realized that we were like it was good, it will be good, because i had to go filming, another program , yeah, transport is running, the streets are clean, everyone goes to work, everything is calm, everything is fine, and it turns out that at my place of residence, i ended up there , they were gathering in the yard, i know its saturday 10, theyll arrive now. The same ones, god, how tired of them i was, i already said words to them, i already asked , but the words had an effect, well, at first they were very aggressive, very angry, in general it was scary to get into that crowd, because one day i i got there, on victory avenue there is a kommunarka cafe, yes i know, and suddenly, this crowd suddenly ran, unfortunately there was no second exit, you had to wait to find out how to get out, and when you get there, i realized that they will run over you, trample you and they wont notice, this is a very unpleasant state, and although we still treat those who participated very humanely, willingly or unwillingly , consciously, unconsciously, yeah, then to me personally, one picture comes to mind in my memories, the morning of the streltsy execution, everything stopped, peter ii, with one action. The streltsy conspiracy destroyed everything, but with us its not like that, because its a pity that a person suddenly understands, suddenly he was mistaken, and the children at home are small, but let me try again, well, this is manipulation, and to hide behind the same small children, and what, well, yes , well, we give everyone a chance, this is humanism, and the person who is given this chance is ready to realize and no, no, no, no, of course not, and the person will also say there is little chance, and somehow i was treated inhumanely, and i think that if you came to this movement, how. Somehow, that is, you accidentally, not by chance, you were thinking, but you are a revolutionary , like this rakhmetov, he was preparing for the revolution, novel, what to do, he slept on nails, because he knew that suddenly he would be captured, tortured, so he is already ready, and if you go somewhere then they put you in some closed institution, so you should be happy, your dream has come true, you are suffering for the revolution, why are you here. And you watched then in the twentieth year, all this was happening, you have an explanation, why then did some people fall for all these calls no no all at once, each change takes about 20 years to prepare for, so that it can be implemented so imperceptibly that we cannot say whether it is this ship or another, there are such ancient greek problems, here is a ship, we change one board, it is the same ship, everyone answers, this is the same ship, we change the second, third, everyone says the same, the same , but in the end, its a different ship, and then everyone says how could this be, and ill give you an example, the power of the word, which is being introduced, and i , i found the source by accident, from a film made in germany, completely detective series, they staged it at the moment when it collapsed. The eastern bloc and there the Police Department and their chief commissioner are collecting , its hard to say now who, because i ll say this word to you, and he says colleagues are coming to us from there, from the west, we are no longer a collective, we are a team, do not say this word collective, because we will offend their tender feelings, and now we will look at the terminology, it is used, the team sounds great, it is something sporting, something uniting, unifying, preferably if well score another goal, preferably not yet on our own gate, we are winning, yes, and the team is a group that was the target of influence in the twentieth year, no one attacked any team, stable, monolithic formations were taken, large, with a united one. With unity, with the production of useful products with socially useful activities , and there are corporations and even we have such a topic, corporate culture, the term has also already taken root, it is directly used, but a corporation is a group closed within itself, if it does something. Sometimes useful, sometimes only for oneself, but everyone is absolutely indifferent the rest, and the command can be a subgroup within either a collective or something. And now lets read the criminal code, there must be a favorite book, there is such a definition, a group of people by prior agreement, this is a team, there is leadership, division of labor, some cohesion functionality and they select according to functionality, fulfilled the functionality is free, so when we say the word command, we must understand whether it is according to the criminal code or labor legislation, which is meant, but over the years this word so it entered, so blurred the system of values that everyone uses, putting some of their own meanings, but as soon as this word is included in the program of influence, everyone will react, heres a history question for you, you know, it turns out that, in principle, all these changes, which were contributed by, say, our worst friends, they were done with our own over. Years , as you said, silent consent, i m now talking about Something Else, about the fugitives who remained on the other side and who ended up there, our colleague, konstantin pridebaylo recently published a post on facebook, where he thus defined the current state of our fugitive, now somewhere in poland he is going crazy in antirussian and antibelossian depression, he is talking about our former goldfish, what do you think, this is the term antirussian, antibelarusian depression, does it take place . Now i dont even know who this is, who is this about . This, this is not interesting to me at all, i dont even know why this is being blurred, this is her revolutionary spiritual impulse, her freedom, everything. Is she happy there . But i dont care this is a persons personal choice. But what about our belarusian tolerance . This connivance, connivance with evil leads to the fact that evil grows in full bloom, in order to understand where is good and where is evil, open the legislation, everything is written there, of course, the legislation is imperfect, for example, i am surprised by the family code, what does it mean to me . Its surprising, in this code there are articles that correspond to world legislation, it actually surprises me, if only someone there would like us, uhhuh, so that they would say, oh, what well done, dont compare us with them, let them compare themselves with us, and we dont live to please anyone, the main thing is that we feel good, we feel good, but there is such a thing, responsible persons, and a minefield has been laid. Grandmother, grandfather, uncleaunt, brothers, sisters, irresponsible persons, they cannot come to school, they will not be allowed in unless one of the parents has written that such and such a person can come and communicate with the child, but what . This is why the family is being torn apart like this, these are not registered stepfathers and mothers, but we have very there are many second marriages, in general someone turns out to be an outsider, is with the child, how can it be, take it away, in general, we can go far, so i think we need to restore the rights of the family as a whole, in many generations, because maybe greatgrandfathers , greatgrandmothers or brotherssisters will notice something in the child that the parents do not see, and we must give them the opportunity to speak out, meet, pick them up from kindergarten, and go to school, because now this is the situation, its terribly dangerous all around. If only they could put guards all around, its terrible, and if only we could go home faster, that is brought up, distrust of the world around us, and this is created by small but consistent actions, so lets take a sober look at the world, we live comfortably, its good here, its calm here, envy, do better at home, the question of war and peace in the light of the latest belarusians are very concerned about events, our guest ivan eismond, he spoke about this, lets listen, the fact that politics interests the audience so much is still, but after all the shocks that we have experienced, he is happy, the shocks continue, just the thing is that in neighboring country, well, of course, this cannot but influence, and well, it cannot but influence people, in the top are russian information and analytical, news releases, which are the programs that we broadcast, well, of course, people are interested in this, cannot but interested, thats what, well, thats the question. Death, war and peace, the most important thing that worries people today, in our country, i talk a lot with people, our journalists communicate, and recently talked around the country, they travel, of course, people are worried and extremely grateful that we are still didnt get involved in this story, grateful to the countrys leadership, the president , they increasingly remember the twentieth year and say that we would have had the same thing, well, there are a lot of sources now. From different channels, that is, if earlier there was radio, television, newspaper, now plus internet sources, these flows of information, when a person receives them, there is a lot of this information, different from absolutely different sources, he can wind up as a result yourself to some kind of psychological problems, maybe, but this is not information, but information noise, because there is some information that a chatbot can disseminate, no one knows who there is, but you. And there are people who simply begin to somehow emotionally respond to everything , without analyzing, indeed, going back to the twentieth year now, if it werent for the leadership, where would we be, there is such a question, the role of the individual in history, yeah, its true , when the person didnt go anywhere , he went out to the people, to the people, went to the factory, so i met the president at the factory, aggressive, nervous, this is a crowd of some people, who want to express something, its not even clear what, and a person with an open, right open chest, doesnt defend how to treat this, thank god, we dont have a civil war, as for war and peace, we always live in state of war, we are just used to it and dont feel it, there are dif