Being kind through loss and grief Updated Jane Linley-Thomas and Paul Bushell Share this: It has been a time of global loss and grief. It is often hard to know what to do with these feelings. It can also be very hard to know how to be there for other people. Canva - Bridget McNulty, author of 'The Grief Handbook' In this episode of the KindnessCan podcast, psychologist Paul Bushell and Jane Linley-Thomas catch up with speaker and author of 'The Grief Handbook', Bridget McNulty. In 'The Grief Handbook', McNulty offers personal insights and practical advice that enables people to grieve in their own way.