Atascadero mother uses her grief for good after losing her son Cammie Velci and last updated 2021-05-01 11:54:53-04 Itâs something no parent should have to endure - the sudden loss of a child. An Atascadero mother is using her grief for good - pushing for fentanyl awareness after losing her son in March 2020. Cammie Velciâs life dramatically changed when she lost her 19-year old son, Emilio. Emilio passed away after taking a powerful painkiller. âEmilio was having wisdom teeth pain and we had been talking about it...saying it hurts and we have to get his teeth out,â said Velci.