Nightmare, or dreamboat? Andrew Cuomo can't be both. Can he? When — if — Cuomo's political obituary is written, there will be this odd footnote. How is it that a man who has been accused of sexually predatory behavior in the workplace, and who appears to be widely seen by subordinates of both sexes as a bully, has also touched the heartstrings of a large subset of TV viewers? "The Love Gov," he was called. His female following were "Cuomosexuals." "Sometimes we confuse charm with virtue, and that's not necessarily the case," said Mina Ahn, a professor of social psychology at Bergen Community College.