Amid Ben Affleck romance, Jennifer Lopez gushes how she's 'never been better': It's the best time of my life In the midst of her rekindled relationship with Ben Affleck, Jennifer Lopez divulged how she's "really gotten to a place in my life where I'm great on my own." Written By Jennifer Lopez revealed, "I just want everybody to know that it's the best time." Jennifer Lopez, who recently released a sultry new single titled Cambia El Paso with Rauw Alejandro, is shedding light on how happy she currently is amid her reconciliation with ex-fiance Ben Affleck. During an appearance on Apple Music 1's The Zane Lowe Show, JLo revealed her current state is that she's "super happy," via Just Jared. The 51-year-old actress is well aware of the fact that people are always wondering how she is, what's going on and is she okay.