That is not such an input that a process anymore so i wanted to share this from calve who says practically i have a will i want to be buried in as low impact a way as possible ideally under a tree after every scrap of me that can be used to help someone else has been taken from me my body is just a vehicle for my soul once im done with it i dont much care and sara naturally im going to give this one to you because this is something at the heart of what you do so when michael was talking about did the way the coldness really not to put words in your mouth michael but the gist of it was this is become such a cold process youre trying to push away from that sara thats correct so youre not only is the dying become a cold process but the. Burning ourselves has turned into immensely resource intensive the way that we do it in this country were burying. Just. Ranges of amount of steel and coffin excuse me and concrete and like rain forest harvested hardwoods in the ground every year not to mention all about embalming fluid and what people dont realize is that none of that is necessary you literally can be wrapped in and. That can be as simple as a quilt that your grandmother made and laid and made sure one of the things nature does best is decompose you know and it is just so simple wed like over complicated not only dying the after death care and and burial you know. Id like to add i really acknowledge you for being so clear about what your wishes are and absolutely theres a point its very important that those of us that have values and caring for our planet while were living need to carry those through into our dying as well one very very key point however is to make sure that we are writing down our wishes wishes need to be written down and it requires us to talk about it 1st so that people in our lives know what it is that we want written down so that after our death the people in our lives arent struggling to try and figure out what we would have wanted a little i love this point well i will admit i do not have a will and i talked to my sisters about it often and were morbid and so we talk about the next time thanksgiving rolls around and all the family is together we want to sit down and make it a will writing session so that exactly that happens show of hands that our panel how many of you have a will how many of you have family members and friends who know your wishes. Aside from just a will will likely. Because actually dealing with this exemption what about your desires for life support that causes so much more grief and hard a what happens with your are granted that is difficult as well but people care about they care about what you value along you want to be kept on life support what. You need to get that you cant leave things matter right. Francesca are you trying to get we havent heard from francesca i also feel like its of service to your loved ones to develop your more personal wishes so i myself have created a death journal and my family knows where it is and that it exists and theyve seen it in close form and within it i have mementos i have photos i have its kind of a scrapbook of life but it also has has messages to my family it has all of my wishes it has the ways in which i hope that they take really good care of themselves during grieving so in this way its the give me peace of mind knowing that im doing as much as i can in advance and that i can still care for them in my absence so they have everything planned out everything that ive thought of the music the poems the readings what i see as being comfortable as an atmosphere for my dying and for my aftercare plan well heres another group of people that are doing just that a couple tweets here from good to go thats the organization they write i facilitate advance planning parties where people while young and healthy can get together its like a death cafe but with homework so it was a rocknroll death soundtrack cocktails and potluck dishes to share we talk about death duties and go over the good to go departure file before an emergency they go on to say that we gather together to talk about death grief dying and death preparedness and attendees leave with advance planning documents so this is one idea but taking it even another step forward or someone who sent us a video comment about something called the dinner party its similar to what you do michel so ill play this from Carla Fernandez and id love you to tell me what you think about it. Now assume that 20 and 30 somethings just dont want to talk about grief and loss of life after that for those of us who actually lived it and are oftentimes the 1st people in our peer group to someone we very much do want to talk about it or some of us do its that we dont always have the people within our networks who we feel safe to approaching to have a conversation its not really something you can bring up at the Office Water Cooler while youre out of the bar so through the dinner party were helping to match people to one another based on or zip codes based on what they like to do on the weekends so that they can actually have a community of friends who get it and understand the highs and the lows of life after losing someone and help each other move forward together. So michael thats one way tell us about that over dinner one of the words that carla and that was the dinner party so and i also want to acknowledge even though were giving people a lot of great ideas it is very hard to get these things done i spent 7 years building just over dinner theres been over a 1000000 people it was set up and use our resources for dinner got or. Sort of a book about how to have a conversation about death and i did complete my own will and i use the 5 wishes to do this in still i had published the book so how did it takes i have a great deal of compassion for people that have broached this topic and one of the ways that it has been difficult for all of us is that people havent made it attractive havent made a graceful ways or exciting ways to have this conversation over dinner is that it is here is a beautiful way to have this conversation and we give people the scripts all of the resources for free online. And the people who. Are sometimes sometimes a narrative. Neal where they talk about not just death but really how they want to. And i want to give weve been talking a bit about the stick i want to give people the character here that sure thats attached to this conversation we know that facing our mortality actually makes us funny there are studies that have and it improves our sense of humor and theres been an early work done by dr dad about how it actually increases our capacity to love and our ability to connect with our life partner and so you know we get laughter and love and Human Connection out of recission those are the things we need for a bond chair but those are the things we want in life so its not just call that were selling here i love that you have and this is a tweet you got from campsie who says. Embracing death can assist us and living a happier life it can make us savor every day we spend alive it is hard but anyone who can should accept that as a surgeon so those who have accepted that fact i want to push on just a little bit to introduce another idea this fellow doctor and thats mal and shes the person who gave us the idea for the show in the 1st place she pitched this topic because she wanted us to look into end of life do laws and she sent us a video comment about what bad is and for cesc ill direct this one to you have a listen. What do end of life do is do we work with people who often from the time of the life limiting terminal diagnosis all the way through to the act of dying to death and sometimes we even help with the funeral and Grief Support afterwards if you want to live like me we climbed focused Client Center to lead you to support ok from compassionate communities laugh with you listen to you. Questions honestly and openly were here for you lets talk. For jessica. Thats beautiful i really appreciate her the scripts and you know we are not medical emotional support people and the demands that weve seen for our Training Course has been astounding its remarkable how many people are stepping up into this work and are interested in it weve had over 500 people complete it on line were getting people from all over the world but were not only getting private practice to us were getting doctors nurses nurses aide spiritual care providers Mental HealthWorkers Office volunteers people are eager for this information how do i offer compassionate support how can i come in with a 9 judge mental approach how can i sit with people in silence its really beautiful and it gives back to me so much more than i can explain a little you or i dont know what im gonna do i see you try to jump in there but im so curious are there many people of color doing the work that you do. There are not yet. I find that often when i walk into rooms of practitioners theyre generally probably in the 50 years she age range and older white women not only do we not have a lot of people of color we also dont have a lot of men and we also dont have people that that assign any that are outside the gender conformity so what im finding particularly with my work is that ive created opportunities for people to have representation and feel as though theyre somebody who understands what their background is and particularly what is important to them and my Training Course also where i trained through those im finding that i am i have a lot of people of color that are signing up for this course lot of people that identifier square or are there somehow and its really important since all of us at some point are going to die its very nice to know that the person thats sitting across from you might understand your experience and we can learn not only the emotional spiritual and practical components of caring for dying but also honor the individual athlete complete individual as a complete individual looking at all elements. I want to bring this up here in the closing minutes of our conversation and share each as you try to get in there so ill direct it to you the tory a says she wants people to know its ok to say theyre dead out loud acknowledgment of ownership of a i want mortality can only lead to being more relaxed talking about death would you agree with their. I absolutely agree with her you know starting to use rather than using euphemisms to use the actual words you know even when were talking with children about that but i wanted to add to what death do and swear were saying about being there you know present go on down the continuum of care. That after death work becoming familiar with these after death task caring for our own once loved ones at home being physically and personally involved in the burial of our own dad. Allows us to grieve a little more healthily perhaps and weve relegated ourselves as spectators after death you know where we stand there and have it done for us and so a lot of my work is about choice people understanding that they can do this legally you can keep a body at home you can take care of it there you can and you need to maybe connect with the home funeral guide who knows the laws in your state but in virtually every state you can do this and find out if youve got a. Green beret around nearby and so check out the home if youre online and that org to find a home funeral guides that are familiar with state law and. And im glad youre out counsel yeah go ahead right up there because what what the user is getting is a laundry list of some great ideas and great to sinners and what were still lacking all our resources somebody when theyre in the middle of a crisis were grieving do the students want us practitioners of what weve said i wish it was like a month and hour of things that are about to launch this platform for the best practitioners you know right well i like that idea but michael i have to pozzi there someone take that idea and run with it thats all the time we have for now but thank you to french has a little at michael and sarah for being part of this conversation and a big thank you to our Community Member who pitched the show until next time see online. An estimated 100000 lives cruelly ended over a century ago. A distant past not to the descendants of the sultan. 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And israel under pressure to reverse its ban on a visit by 2 u. S. Congress on the. Delays in zimbabwe have antigovernment demonstrators protesting against the high cost of living running battles started on the streets of the capital of harare the high Court Dismissed an attempt by the opposition to overturn a ban on demonstrations the movement for Democratic Change says it will go ahead with protests and other cities next week. Joins us by phone from harare so the protesters that started this today they knew that there was a ban but they pushed ahead tell us what happened. Well what happened was they received when to the courts the high courts to try and overturn the police that the court case but some people had only thought of that then going at a clock in the city saying that they refused to leave riot police they moved in surrounded them they threw refused to leave the riot police then started beating up some of them tried to the crowd and since then theyve been running mrs pocock the city center of police i have defied them to get the king of people who are walking through the city coughing trying to splash water on their faces because of the take after fixing them the police say they want to put his ban because they say that information that some of these opposition supporters were carrying arms or weapons they also say that information that some rocks that he was able to see the same time stashed in key areas and those drugs were going to be used to destroy property and reduce shops of the opposition leaders deny all the right now its still pretty much good wishes here and they they keep trying to come back to defend the point of talk with the post was made to take place these are still trying to push them out of the city same time but some of them do seem defying to say were not going to be shells so right now what were saying are police that are wielding the taunts against the protesters have you seen any type of military presence. Not yet right now its pretty much right police and local police leaving back and sticks to beat people who were refusing to leave i saw one woman who was badly beaten to a beating from the head another man also collapsed and came to tried to take them out but there is a c. Is involved because in august last year and in general even when there were major protests organized by Opposition Forces the soldier was deployed and some people were killed in those protests the sons of ali with the back of the mind really aware of what happened thats why right not to call harare the moment its pretty much a dig city a lot of businesses didnt open when people didnt come to work they stayed home fearing that they could be violent hermits also herb remind our viewers what it is the protesters are upset about essentially they say its about the economy as an investment and i want to go from love to a god that 2017 and we need to go of a he promised a few years ago going to be different hes going to manage the economy better hes going to be a job but since then theyve been soaring inflation high unemployment the price of food keep driving a constant because some people dont have water running pipe or through their homes believe the minds of some of them people offered drugs at phillips saying its a black economy they want to do something about it and he doesnt use that advice if they want to step down. When the guy was always been saying that he took over an economy that was the really in shambles and going to take time to fix that he called it was awesome zimbabweans to be patient but the people on the streets today are saying enough is enough they tie the patients they now want action and if i was im feeling fine feeling to leave the city say and go home alright her room apostle with the latest for us from her i thank you very much. North koreas rejecting further reunification talks with the south saying this suggestion is foolish government spokesman n. P. R. Made the announcement before the latest Ballistic Missile tests the firing of 2 short range weapons into the sea of japan on friday is the 6th test in the past month or korea says its angered by the souths latest military drills with the u. S. And its condemning the south korean president s call for reunification c. One who is a publisher of korea expose in english news and culture magazine on south korea he says this kind of language from north korea is nothing new. Has it certainly not being very pleasant for the government in solar to be faced with this kind of rhetoric at this juncture biden they need to face the reality north korea is extremely unhappy about the pace of the denuclearizat