Dear Doctor,
My weight has become an issue in my relationship. When we were younger, my then boyfriend used to love to watch me eat, especially since I did not gain weight. We got married and as I aged, I became more and more sluggish. And so I put on a lot of weight. Now my once-boyfriend, now husband refuses to be intimate with me, calling me fat. It hurts. When I try to diet, I quickly fall off the path – I love my food – and the cycle continues. I feel like this may end my marriage, what should I do?