Oarton turned up at her address, banging on the door, before barging his way into her home.
He tried to snatch the phone and made threats, stating it would be “the last thing she would do”.
He also made threats to her with a knife - although he did not actually have one.
He grabbed her and twice, spat at her and prevented her from calling the police or escaping.
On another occasion, on October 17 last year he banged at her door and accused her of having been with someone else and warned her he would find her and slice her face up.
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A murder investigation was launched in North Walsham after the incident. Photo: Casey Cooper-Fiske
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A man is to go on trial later this year after denying the murder of a 42-year-old who was stabbed in the neck following a disturbance in a Norfolk town.
Police at the scene of where Thomas Moore died in North Walsham. Picture: Casey Cooper-Fiske
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Officers arrived to find the man, who has since been identified as Thomas Moore, on nearby Bacton Road.
He died at the scene.
Matthew Constantinou, 42, of Antingham Drive, North Walsham, has been charged with murder and appeared at Norwich Crown Court for a plea and trial preparation hearing on Friday, January 29.