Married - Maggie and Dave Hargraves remarried at the Colchester Hospital chapel A FORMER nurse with terminal bladder cancer has been able to say ‘I do’ again to her ex-partner after her hospital colleagues went above and beyond. Maggie Hargraves, 73, was diagnosed with terminal bladder cancer last year and is receiving end of life care at Colchester Hospital. Her ex-husband Dave Hargraves came to stay in November to help look after her and has stayed ever since. The couple decided they wanted to re-marry and say their vows for a second time. The pair spoke with lead chaplain for the hospital Allison Cline-Dean who was supporting Maggie before an operation.