Dear Ellie: Last year, before the pandemic, my niece was planning her wedding. A bridal shower was planned for a day that I was obligated to babysit my three-year-old grandson. I asked the person throwing the shower if I could bring my grandson. She told me that would be ok. However, my niece called and told me that no boys were allowed to attend. I said a few nasty words to her, she said some nasty words back. My niece also told me that I was off the guest list. Months later, there was a party for the couple and my sister asked why I wasn’t planning on going. I told her that her daughter took me off the guest list. Then COVID-19 hit and all festivities were cancelled. The couple still got married in June. In September, I apologized and bought my niece a bridal gift and a wedding gift. I wished her and her husband all the best. By last December, my niece and my sister were still angry. They blame me for all the problems that occurred. I’m so frustrated and ready to move away, in