a real world skill they will need. harris: your ability to do that ties in with yourself-esteem. feeling whole in those relationships might be a question. julie: studies snow girls see other people on facebook and it makes them feel insecure it am not real life. it s facebook. harris: you have got to monitor them. there are bullies online. apparently backing republican candidates can be bad tore business. what a local host of pawn star says happened to him after he voiced his support for a republican candidate. can a business have a mind?
feel the impact later in life or is it the time that the bullying happens? because you re young and impressionable? no, i think it is the actual bullying. we really have to sort of drill down to the psychologically harmful effects, the negative effects of bullying. that happened in real time, as you mentioned, could linger well into our 40s and 50s. what we know that bullying can be emotionally damaging. it affects yourself esteem. you feel bad about yourself. you develop a poor self-concept, you feel shame. all these things can be damaging to our psyche in the interim and later in life. that is why it is really important for us to talk about these things. jenna: you liked this study. you thought it was a good study to look at. showed people that were bullied when they were younger and had depression and anxiety disorder and committed suicide with issues dealing well into the 40s and 50s. how do you prevent that.
systematically. each day you may set aside from 6 to 7 at night to study in preparation for that test so that it isn t all on one day. brian: respect your competition. absolutely. don t give your competition any type of information that might insent them or make them feel like they have more to gain psychologically by what something you ve said or written. brian: i have so much to ask you. we ll ask more on radio. but here is the one thing, so many people watching right now don t have jobs. tom coughlin didn t have a job. you were fired, but in your head you know you coach again. so you show up at the combines and the scouting and you meet giant gm manager who said, what are you doing here? you don t have a job. and he said, they will. when the giants fired their coach, they called you because they knew you were ready. you never know when it s gog happen. when you lose your job, yourself-esteem is down and you have to pick yourself back up and get going. once you start to do