family was supporting him? it said a lot. it was great. reporter: debbie s friends weren t nearly as supportive. did you say anything to him? did he say anything to you? no. no, i didn t. i did not. reporter: they were furious at lars for doing something so stupid, so careless. everything he did bothered them. even his taste in flower arrangements that day. like the one that s pictured here. there was a wreath up at the front that was a huge flower heart, and in the middle of it, it was broken with these lines. so it was this broken heart. and it actually looked like a heartbeat, and it was in such poor taste. she was actually shot in the heart? well, it penetrated the lining of her heart, yes. reporter: as family and friends tried to sort out their feelings police reviewed the case, looking to see if this was a crime or not. since even an accident can