family, to inform famil the media nicely that they would like us to stand back and not harass the family. you have family members who have gathered. the brother, other relatives coming in and out of the house right now. just to kind of be together. obviously the atmosphere here is joy, but at the same time a little bit of anger as the brother said to me and also a cousin. they are trying to come to grips with the reality here that the suspect had a connection with the family, something we re learning more about and we ll have much more about later on today. martha: it s something we ll learn more about that the families may have known each other to some extent. obviously it s a large family. coming to grips with the reality is the major working phrase here. there is a lot to come to grips with. bill: with us now is amanda berry s 6th grade teacher. you can imagine the teacherrer oteacher of this young child