give that person a gift? if you re a man, will you bring flowers to your work spouse wife? here s the thing. yeah. you should first if you re going to do something like that, you have to get permission from your real life spouse. that s the problem. should your wife help you shop for your work spouse? most wives don t know that some guys have work spouses and if you re not familiar, a work spouse is somebody at your place of employment, a member of the opposite sex who you have lunch with, you chitchat with and share your secrets and stuff like that and the worry is that while there is no there is no relationship in the beginning, there could be down the road ooch. that is the problem. i spend more time with you than i do my actual husband. he knows about it. maybe you should ask for permission to get him a gift. let me know. do you think it s appropriate to give your work spouse something? e-mail us right now, friends at foxnews.com or crossing the line? next