strategy of telling stories, to learn how to tell them slowly and in a safe way so they don t just go into their homes, go to their families and feel like if i don t lock these stories up, they ll spill over and wound my children. so we have a process, but the second part, you don t just teach a veteran how to write their story. we need to hear their stories. we need to create space in our society for them to come and share them with us. the book is gated grief. very powerful. lila, thanks so much for joining us. thanks for having me. appreciate it. the stress level of college freshmen is at its highest point since researchers started looking at it a quarter century ago. the latest survey reported in the new york times actually finds the economy impacting students emotional health. they re worried about their college debt, job prospects after graduation. and the survey also found that students are putting more pressure on themselves, and overall women are feeling more over