their first year of marriage. back on their big day, 32-year-old doug henner and 28-year-old jamie otis weren t seeing eye to eye and the days after that no honeymoon. the two decided to tough it out, even moving to a new home, hoping they d fall in love. it has to be hard to hear, i m not in love with you. he s like have you ever been in love with someone in a month. give it time. sorry, lady. this is mommy and daddy time. reporter: for jamie and doug, love did eventually blossom. i love it. reporter: the marriage is going so well that jamie may be getting carried away. making the money so we can have a baby. yeah. you are really in to this whole baby thing, huh? you are not? i mean eventually. reporter: for now, doug just wants to spend time with his new wife.
the survey found men were more likely the ones to be doing the hiding. when he first came up with it i was shocked. reporter: robert neil in california has been a secret saver for nearly 20 years. stashing overtime money he made behind his wife winny s back. winny didn t know how much i was bringing home. i just told her, boy, the taxes are really tough. reporter: winny s been a secret spender herself. her biggest hidden splurge this furniture in their living room. i should have been up front in saying okay, what s your budget. reporter: kimberly foss says financial infidelity is more common than people think and if anything it is on the rise. red flags i look for missing or misdirected financial statements and the obvious one is if there is missing cash in the accounts. reporter: some couples have managed to make their money situation work like matthew and stephanie albright of texas who