it isn t just that jesus is the reason for the season. kit but no matter who was mad at each other and had our issues, wet ju were going to be togethes a flame.for part of the tradition was being in the kitchen cook the dishes.t it, was the meeting spot for alt ofie my family members. we got to that big dinner, it was important to check out the other community to see how they were doing on theih yo on thanksgiving night we wouldkg put the christmas trees and lights together. and we had multiple trees. tha stuck the stockings and listened to nat king cole. during this time we had aspirations because we didn t have much.orho we wanted to see the lights in the other communities. we would go to highland park known as the rich area of dallas, texas.goin