solomon told westchester police warmus was stalking him. which sounded plausible as a previous boyfriend had filed a restraining order against her in michigan in the 80s. so the trip to puerto rico became the turning point. warmus was now the prime suspect in the murder of betty jeanne solomon. stalking, overly aggressive. this is how carolyn warmus has been described by people that knew her. people who know her say that she may have been really involved with the individuals that she had relationships with. i don t think that makes her a stalker. and even if it did, not every stalker is a killer. the prosecution clearly stated that her obsessiveness led to murder. well, that s their job is to say things like that. what you didn t hear them say is