if that happens, that s part of the process. we have gone through these ups and downs. we re prepared for it. you know, we ve been together for almost nine years, and we ve fought a few things throughout these nine years, and if that happens, we will just go through the process. i think ultimately, i mean, the fact that we filed this suit about a year ago and it s taken one year. that s major progress for florida. i think that no matter what 2015 is going to be the year for marriage equality in florida. 36th state. you have a son, right? we do. we have he ll be 6 next week. what is his name? ethan. have you talked to ethan about the latest development or the battle overall? how does he discuss it with you? well, he realized a year ago we weren t married. we started talking to him about us not being married and why. for a 5-year-old he understands.
sure, for these women, mostly women, as you have said, to be testifying at this hearing that you are going to hold, what have you found so far from the pentagon in terms of its responsiveness, the joint chiefs, and i know, of course, the new secretary of defense who just took over yesterday? well, this is something that secretary panetta took very seriously, and he not only declared there be zero tolerance, but he began to change the rules, so initially if you were sexually assaulted, you would have to report that to your commander. your commander could have been your assailant, or your commander could be friends with your asal yant. oftentimes those women who were then tried for committing adultery, even if they weren t married. the way it s treated and the way it s reported, we re going to look at that to see if it s good enough and maybe if it needs to be reported outside of the command structure entirely. that s one of the issues we ll cover in the hearings. there s a lot of othe
women. greta: we took on the record to saudi arabia with former first lady laura bush, on a breast cancer awareness trip. it was astounding, women couldn t get a mammogram because they couldn t drive themselves to get the mammogram and they had to have permission from their husbands and thisf they weren t married, they had to get permission from the father and the brother and then the father and the brother didn t want anyone touching them. they can t go do school and they can t have a male doctor, so you can t get a woman doctor. it s incredible. i spent a year in saudi arabia. i took on our us servicewomen treated similar to them while we were serve ago. greta: what it was? you objected to the way they required you to discretions? itch it was a in be of things. bureaucratic policy. first, put on the moz lim garb, then they saidt put it on and put the head scarf on, if you
greta: we took on the record to saudi arabia with former first lady laura bush, on a breast cancer awareness trip. it was astounding, women couldn t get a mammogram because they couldn t drive themselves to get the mammogram and they had to have permission from their husbands and thisf they weren t married, they had to get permission from the father and the brother and then the father and the brother didn t want anyone touching them. they can t go do school and they can t have a male doctor, so you can t get a woman doctor. it s incredible. i spent a year in saudi arabia. i took on our us servicewomen treated similar to them while we were serve ago. greta: what it was? you objected to the way they required you to discretions? itch it was a in be of things. bureaucratic policy. first, put on the moz lim garb, then they saidt put it on and put the head scarf on, if you are asked.
that murky relationship with kelli brophy, who on the stand walked a narrow line between defending tom and helping the prosecution. did he indicate also that he wanted to take care of you? yes, i think that was brought up. and did you find that concept appealing? yes. she didn t want to testify at all and only came here under subpoena, still denying she and tom ever had an affair. do you recall telling the investigators that tom had asked you that if you weren t married, if you two could date? date? i don t recall date. what do you recall him asking? just if i d wait for him. kelli had agreed to wait. the insurance payout was a given, but according to prosecutors, tom s plan for his post-juanita life had one problem. juanita didn t have a will. would you come forward? so six days before their vacation, tom had a meeting with an attorney.