stay closer with people who are farther away and people are at different places in their life. some people have young children and it makes it hard to get away. you re a very popular guy with men and women and getting invited by your friends to the wedding. do you ever tell them, shut up. enough? i wouldn t quite put it that way neil. but sometimes you have to do wedding triage. it s really hard. you re quite a friend there, neil. i have to say. remind me to invite you to mine at some point. but i was remembering an example a few years ago a. very good friend of mine got married and there was an international bachelor party, out of town wedding, airports hotels, the gift, you add all of that up and i m happy to do it for that buddy but if there were two or