t-shirts. you can be anything you want to be. i cannot be in the nba. i thought of that too. i d love to be a prima ballerina but never taken a dance lesson and i m a little heavyset for that job so i chose something that made sense for me. that. i can t be in the nba, you may think you can t be a prima ballerina. but you canan choose things that are realistic for you, and you can start taking action towards a known outcome. mm-hmm. and i ve always said the difference between ace dream and a goal is a timeline. you s can sit around and and you set it up that way.ec make better choices if you want a better outcome. if you start taking that action and turn the choices into actions, then wow, you say, you know what? i m somewhere different than i was a weekk ago, or a month ago or a year ago. but you ve got to start taking