effectively, one of the big know your value rules is don t take it personally. the entire thing that played out on the court was extremely personal, it was about serena, it was about being apologized to and it became it just completely blew out of control and quite frankly impacted her tennis you could argue, but even more so took away from what was really happening. the winner was amazing and she won and really what should have happened for her was taken away by serena, incapable of not taking this all personally and taking it all in. she is such a huge platform, mike lupica, that she could have waited and she could have talked about these things on the big stage, so to speak, and really had some good conversations, debates even about whether the data shows that women perhaps are treated unfairly or differently because of the rules, but instead she brought it on to the court. mika, as i watched it play out in realtime and heard