now. be careful. especially if the relationship is one is the boss and one is not. clayton: and we saw a study this week and going to talk a little bit on the show, if you like more men have dated co-workers they have been under the men, and women are less likely to date their bosses than the men are. why is that? it s a good question he, actually. i think, i think too many stories that we ve all heard over time about men who are dating you, but may be with somebody else, and be with both. people are smarter than that. be careful when you re mixing work and love. clayton: one final valentine s day question, we have people in our audience and say, what about celebrating valentine s day when you re single. what should you had do when you re single on valentine s day. you should look at the friends and say aren t you lucky you have so many great friends. some of the couples you re with are together and want to spend time with you, too, and go out with your single friends and have