i say honey, you just bought me your valentines present and she actually buys what she wants. if i get it, it s always not it s not the right color. it s not the right size. so she actually buys her own valentines calls me up and tells me congratulations, i just bought the valentines. thank you. it works very well that way. we ve been married coming up on 20 years now. now you have ammunition now. apparently she s only supposed to spend $63.34 this year. how far will that get you on valentine s day? yeah, yeah. no. when is valentine s day? it s sunday night. you might be i am on the road with copd on that night. yeah. i don t know if i ll be able to be around at that time. that s true. for guys watching right now, if you want to be like jim belushi, what is a good valentine s day gift? listening. that is so good. that sounds like a therapist s