memorial service. we would like to be able to go to a grave somewhere and see her. i mean, first family said the same thing. you know, devastated. never heard that, you know, she wanted to be cremated. i mean, as soon as he got that body released, boom, cremated. and the bertolets added, if that wasn t enough, he then took those ashes and put them where he wanted them. toni s ashes are spread on the same mountain that he spread the first wife s ashes. same spot. did the exact same thing. and he always claims that it s their favorite spot. i mean, we re talking he did the exact same things from start to finish with both wives. crazy. i mean, even the same photo pose. the families thought what harold did with his wives remains was insensitive. but the cops, federal and local, were looking for something else. evidence of murder. in douglas county, the detectives went down the list of who might know anything about lynn s case.
did you do this? did you cause your death? it was more about catching him in lies and inconsistencies? right, right. then harold said something which didn t make sense to kim, that he d put his career on hold when haley was born and he and toni decided to keep that a secret. he told us the reason he didn t work and didn t tell us is that toni had asked him not to. he couldn t tell us because he was afraid that if we ever met up with the bertolets, that we d tell them that he was a stay-at-home dad. i m like, we would never see them. and he goes, well, i couldn t take that chance. then there was a technical glitch. at one point my wire wasn t working. how did you know it wasn t working? they called me on the phone and so you were taking a call in front of harold from the police? and they told me to get in the bathroom and they would fix it. wire fixed, kim went back to the table. harold, who was never shy about anything, launched into a sad story about life without
i was scared. at first she could only think of one thing. they had a huge wire around my waist. i kept saying, he s going to hug me. and they said, no, he can t. and i said, he s going to hug me. he does that. and they said, no, he can t. and i was trying to process what am i going to do? so don t hug me. that s kind of hard. that looks suspicious. and so when he hugged me i put my hand in front of me to guard the wires. crisis averted, they sat down. do you think he could tell anything was up? we don t know. i mean, he said many times, my attorney has told me that my friends will be wired. did that send a chill? no. i said, golly, that s terrible, would they really do that? i could play the game. kim and her husband were told to not mention toni and to drill down on what really happened when lynn died. this wasn t about you saying,
polished. well spoken. very professional looking. his name was harold henthorn. he worked as a consultant to nonprofits, he didn t smoke, rarely drank and said he was a planner. eventually, harold flew out to jackson, and with them being methodical types, they developed a formula for a lasting love. they came up with a system for compatibility, and it was five seas. i don t remember what they all were, christianity was one of them, chemistry, maybe. when they met for the first time, they would know that the chemistry was there, they confirmed four out of the five before their first meeting. so when they met it was kim combustion? toni ticked off the 5 cs. first impression she.
apparently everything he ever said about his job was a lie. including nearly every thursday when he said he went on business trips. just as there was no business, there were no business trips. the fbi looked at harold s cell phone and credit card records and found out that he really spent thursdays at this panera bakery a few miles from his house, eating and surfing the web. so after the wedding, why did harold say he needed to stay in colorado for his work? why eventually did toni have to leave mississippi? toni s family wondered if harold s real purpose was to separate her from them so she d be easier to control and maybe to kill. do you think that there s the chance that he knew his plan for toni from the very beginning? from the time they said i do ? well, they got a life insurance policy as soon as they got back from their honeymoon,