.. there are some things i want to say. elin and i have started the process of discussing the damage caused by my behavior. as elin pointed out to me, my real apology to her will not come in the form of words. it will come from my behavior over time. he certainly blamed himself, but he also took a shot at the news media. my failures have made me look at myself in a way that i never wanted to before. it s now up to me to make amends. that starts by never repeating the mistakes i ve made. it s up to me to start living a life of integrity. i once heard, and i believe it s true, it s not what you achieve in life that matters, it s what you overcome. achievements on the golf course are only part of setting an example. character and decency are what really count. parents used to point to me as a role model for their kids. i owe all those families a special apology. i want to say to them i am truly sorry. i ve always tried to keep my wife and children when my children were b