you can relate more personal information. but initially, we think you should drive yourself to that particular location for that date. it gives you not only some independence, if things aren t working out, you re not stuck for a ride. you just get back in your car and go home. exactly. and have a separate e-mail account. why is that necessary? well, we find out that through mymatchchecker.com we have found individuals that have a particular e-mail address, primary e-mail address, that can be discovered on line as well. we do that, that s one of the services and there s some other services that provide that. you want to create a pseudo so to speak or a second e-mail address just to protect yourself and your name. what do you say to the guy or girl that gets offended when he said you have to do a criminal background check on me? what do you say? people get offended by that. well, you know, what we want to too is make people safer and two people that like each other that want to