beautiful and very thendend er and open post. it reminded me of a time in my life when my husband and i were first married and we like so many other couples misscarried, and it s common than you believe, and he is right. most people do not talk about it. he described it as a lonely experience. how so? what do you think that he meant by that? well so many couples have this three month time line where they design thatcide that they re going to tell anybody because something could go wrong. since 80 percent of miscarriages happen during the first trimester what happens if you have announced it and have a miscarriage miscarriage, it s difficult to tell people that s actually what happened with you, and so while i don t think that society has necessarily a taboo on talking about it i think that we impose