Dear Angela: My boyfriend (35) and I (28) are going through a rough patch in our relationship. We’re arguing and fighting a lot and there are bad vibes between us all the time. Most of our arguments happen at night-time and then my boyfriend usually ends up sleeping in our guest room. The next morning he sneaks back into our bed to wake me up with cuddles and kisses and then he makes love to me. These early morning sessions are the best sex ever but once it’s over I’d still like to talk about our problems. But every time I bring it up my boyfriend says I have to stop being so negative, and that there’s no need to talk when we made up already. The makeup sex might get us back on track, but the peace only lasts a few days and then we’re back fighting. Answer: Sex can help to smooth things over after an argument, and it is true that makeup sex can be extremely intense and passionate. It helps you to reconnect with your partner, but it doesn’t solve your problems. To sort out a