absolutely and so scarlet, evening, just so everybody knows, you have turned your pan to purpose, devoted these years to traveling around the world, talk to school kids, educators, you talk to everyone about trauma and spotting it and helping to process it, and i mean, you say you found your purpose you know, after all of the pain, and so in terms of the casaresis, what can you say to them, where do they begin to start processing the horrible pain. i mean, it s so difficult and they are really right in it right now. they re still in the investigation phase and they re still sorting through so many mistakes that were made, and my heart really goes out to them. you know, it is a long process but i can tell you for myself at some point, i just made a choice