HACIENDA HEIGHTS, Calif. (RNS) Los Angeles Auxiliary Bishop David G. O’Connell was committed to 'the ordinary person, not the rich Catholic,' said Linda Dakin-Grimm, an immigration attorney who worked with the bishop. His death is being investigated as a homicide.
all of their feelings that they re feeling, and hatred that s directed towards me, has to do with their fears about or their anger and disappointment and sadness about their mother cheating on their father, or their father or their husband or their spouses. it has to do with them, and it doesn t have to do with me because they don t know me. oprah: why can t it just be what they think that it s wrong? people can think it s wrong for me to do that. they can think it s wrong for anyone to do that, but it still has to do with them thinking it s wrong. it doesn t have to do with me. it s their judgment on what s right and wrong based upon their life experience, based upon their fears, their hopes, their dreams. it has to do with them. it doesn t have to do with me. oprah: what is the lesson in all of this for you? there s been a lot of them because i have become a better person from the process more compassionate, more patient, more understanding, more aware. oprah: mm-hmm.