This story was first published on capsulenz.com It took Kelly three and a half years to finally tell her husband the words that had been bouncing around her head for much of that time: “This isn’t working. We need to divorce.” They were often on the tip of her tongue when she and Mike were screaming at each other for not emptying the dishwasher or for leaving wet towels on the floor, or when she was feeling resentful for being the only one who seemed to be responsible for ferrying the kids to and from school, soccer practice, or friends’ birthdays – even though they both worked full time.