when guests are a no-show at a wedding, yes, that can cost you a lot of money. an invoice sent to the guest were no-shows for $240. i would say this. doug simmons and beecher simmons expected more than 100 people to make it to their destination wedding and they were stunned when i found out there were a number of no-shows. so as you pointed out, weddings are very expensive. they sent out these invoices. i don t know about you. look, things happen. finances being what they are. i think the nice thing to do is let it slide. if somebody sent me that, we are no longer friends. that s putting it mildly. shannon: you can go see what gifts they got you and then decide if you want to invoice them. but if anyone can actually pay it, if you got it would you be like okay? here is been no. i saw somebody put lol on it and i would send it back like that. i would not even dignify it. i m trying to be better this