on a solo moon. you want time to reflect. ed: go on a baby moon. here is what they say in the story quoting gloria lushing. i didn t realize how stressful wedding planning was going to be, so i needed some time to myself to decompress. all i wanted to do was get away from everything and everyone and de-stress. is it all about you? because they also quote jason sims who said i used that rock for immigration to recenter myself throughout the hike like, look, the grand canyon is giving you this beacon to help you stay positive and affirm your plan to get married. now, pete, you were along for the ride but that might have been where it went off course for you. pete: jason, you lost me somebody. the rock formation is affirming me. jedediah: very philosophical all of a sudden. i went to a spa planning the wedding and i had an amazing my friend helped me plan the wedding. did i have a spa day where i said to my now husband i said i need to have my