monitoring their kids social media usages don t pick up on the cues and subtle bullying and dises going on. can you imagine having phones back in the day? i can t. think back i m 48. when i was in school the only way to kind of gauge your popularity was if you ran for school election or got, you know, on a team. homecoming. exactly. now a 13-year-old can get a realtime 24/7 data on how popular they are. who s liking their photos. how many likes they re getting. people are posting sometimes taking as many as 100, 150 selfies in order to get one that they post on instagram. and if it doesn t get enough likes in the first couple minutes they take it down. you couldn t pay me to go back to seventh grade, especially seventh grade in 2015. but beyond social media what else did you find? it s all the ways people are using social media, the way even it involves when you break up at 13 kids are sending explicit videos or pictures of