starts balling again. i m like, half an hour later, the same thing happens with rachel. oh lord. i can t imagine a day like that. do you know where your dad was? did you know where any sort of center of your lives was? i didn t know anything. after that they just took us into questioning. . but then, it was hard for anyone to focus on anything other than loss, all consuming grief. she was the neatest friend, cousin, you could ever ask for. you needed something, sheedz be there in a heart beat. outgoing? oh, she would talk to anybody. everybody knew her. she made everybody feel like they were one of her closest friends. that s how she was she was sincere. a care giver. that was pam zimmerman. but to her, the diane gifford and brother larry alexander, pam was also the family smart