but while pam was looking for the right deal in aspen, back in tucson, gary triano was feeling uneasy. gary said, i think we are being followed. i just thought, you are starting to scare me, dude. [laughs] taylor showbergh, his girlfriend at the time, says was gary was convinced that someone was following him. i remember asking him, why would anyone want to follow you? and he said, because of a life insurance policy. turns out gary was insured for $2 million. his children, trevor and lois were the beneficiaries. until they turned 18, though, the money was controlled by their mother, pam. they had gone through a nasty divorce? yes. there were child custody battles and visitation battles. so it would be natural that you would be looking at her. yes.