that s why she s advocating on gay diplomats, allow let s talk politics for a second. i don t know how the court is going to rule. i hope it rules positively. i have changed my position mike lost of us, i have evolved. new word. magg maggie, you have covered this. what i think has crumbled is the opposition. it s not so much people are saying it s fair, people are gay, they re born gay. it may not be nature versus nur tour is a nonrelevant conversation. people are what they are, they should be allowed to pursue happiness and let s be fair and equal about it. but i think what s crumbled is the opposition. nobody can think of a reason to oppose it. it came up in prop 8. they couldn t find anybody to come in and say there s a public from in possessing it. the most significant development you saw beyond the presidential race in 2012 but there were four states that had gay marriage related referenda, but overall were sort of aimed